(Much like women over age 33, the older I get, the higher my standards become. This is because I'm getting more busy with work (FBs take less time) and my standards for serious relationships have increased. Though honestly, lately in my life, as in the last 18 months or so, there have been more FBs and fewer MLTRs. My overall historical breakdown over the last eight years is about 50% FBs, 50% MLTRs. As always, I track everything I do with women on spreadsheets, so I can give you exact figures.ħ7% of every new woman I have sex with end up becoming an ongoing relationship. When an ONS guy has sex with a new woman, it's a very minor and brief win.ĭo all the women I have sex with become long-term relationships? To be fair and objective, we need to discuss my success ratios with the number of women I have sex with one time that become ongoing FBs or MLTRs. When I have sex with a new woman, it's a huge and long-term win. That's in addition to the woman I'm already having sex with, and in addition to any new women I choose to add later. Once I have sex with her, I'm going to be having sex with her for years and years. This means that when I meet new women, or send out online openers to new women, or go out on first and second dates with new women, and spend the time and effort necessary to get to sex, I receive a massive return on that time investment. There are women I still see sexually who are in their 40s who were in their early to mid 30s when I first started seeing them years ago. For example, there are women who I still see sexually sometimes who are now in their mid 20s who used to be 18 and 19 when I first dated them years ago. This is exactly what happens with me and it's wonderful. Ideally, the rest of my life, but if not that then at least for several years. I want to be having sex with them, off and on at least, for a very, very long time. With 100% of the women I have sex with for the first time, my goal is to place them into a long-term relationship with me under either a nonmonogamous FB, MLTR, or OLTR category. You spent your 'money.' Now you have to go back to square one and spend it all over again. For me, the answer is no.Īfter the next morning, since the ONS is over, you now have to go back and do all that stuff all over again.just for one more evening of sex. Is that little charge worth it? Only you can answer that question for you. You may argue that you get the benefit of a brief charge of manly manness as you beat your chest and mentally add another 'notch' to your 'notch count.' But Jesus, that's all you get.

Once it's the next morning after that ONS, you have nothing to show for it.

All that time and effort leading up to that sex was like spent money. If it's a one night stand, you have sex one time, and then it's all over. You put in all that time of opening women, getting rejected, going out on dates, putting in that time, then finally having sex. The time and effort to get a one night stand with a woman is like spending money. I have been asked a lot lately why I don't do one night stands. Keeping money and having that money earn even more money is even better. It's true that you must spend money to some degree on things like food, shelter, and little entertainment, but I think we can all agree that beyond that, investing money is better than spending money.

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